About a Spanking relationship

These are the legendary words Lady spoke to me just before we went to bed. We where standing in the door, watching the snow falling down. I told her that it was a nice moment to make pictures from her in bondage in the snow. She answered that it was not the moment for that… and : -) with the titel of this posting. Upstairs in the attic she was waiting, lying cross over the bed. (luckely we have a bed witch is a little wider than the last one.) It was nice to see her, she was wearing new boots she bought in the afternoon with black holdups and a black miniskirt… and a very red top with a nice deep V.. so I had more then a nice view! Because she had teased me already in the evening, I didn’t hesitated but first I went back to get a small table, for some reason it ended upside down in the sleepingroom.  

Seeing her on the bed, I turned her on her stomach and pulled up the miniskirt at once, reveiling a nice black thong. I fondeld het bottom a bit, and the first time I spanked her was more teasing then hitting. Seeing her nice new high heeled boots I was playing a little with them… In that movement her buttock was stretched a little, making them more sensitive… and I felt the first signs of aroussel go trough her body.  I’ve seen a lot of black, so decided to stay in line with that and took a black hemp rope. These boots where not only for walking, or for sitting nice, but also very practical for bondage. I tied her left leg and then the right leg, so that het thighs where more revealed… (Ok, I like the sound of her soft moan when I tighten te rope.) After tying her down that bit I went on with a firm barehand spanking. For me it is very sexy to see her not instantaniouslyundressed but in a part of her clothes. Her bottom was nice to see, the thong making the halfs more pronounced. In the barehand spanking I saw her body wiggle, I thought that was a good moment to spank some harder. The wigling became harder also. The rope did hold good, so I kept te room to spank her rather well.  

Her bottom was shining a bit reddish, so there was a warming up, I took a rattan cane, and without warning taps I hitted her for the first time. The reaction in her body was very heavy! So I started to change between the cane and barehanded spanking, and to make it worse for Lady, I used also the classical ruler. For a time I let her held it between her teeth, thes asked it back and used it firmly on her nice behind!  Oh yeah, there was a table also! So I untied here and asked her to go to the upside down table. Trying to be a little nice I put a cushion under her belly before I made he bow over the table, Lady fits very nice between the legs of the table, and kneeled as she was, I tied her legs with the hemp rope to the legs of the table. Now where to go! First I started tp re-warm her buttock, using the different implement in every order. Seeing her body move, seeing the spasms going through here made me smile! Wack! I heard Lady grasp for air. “Our famous red cane, the first one I got her.” She loves it… she hates is. This time it was half a second of hate, and the loving it. So I used it over and over… we played, spanked, teased and shared a lot. Using severel other things, but maybe I write an other time over that… Spanking can be such a joy and so fullfilling… Being spanked can be the same as I see Lady in her world… 

Magic

This weekend we were both not feeling that well, a kind of flue has visited our house. Buth, aswell Lady as I will become a bit moore explicit in our words (and fantasies) as we are not feeling well. In some way I feel that the words than give a laugh, make me feel better and, yes also makes me more longing. 

‘Lady was standing before the mirror, brushing her curly rich hair. The movement of her hands and the effect of the brush was giving her hair a nice and warm gloss. I was looking to her and enjoyed the view. She was only dressed in a thong and matching corset.  

She took her thumbs behind the lacey of her thong and slided the thong down. Sometimes even this old spanker is quicker than Lady knows. Before she had taken of her thong, with her buttock pointing out backwards, she felt the sting of the hairbrush she used for her hair only moments before. “Wow, hey, this one didn’t I see coming!” I only smiled, and wacked again.  

This was the nice start of playing, I used the hairbrush a lot, for a long time only on one side of her buttock, and after the hairbrush she felt the harsh sting of the cane. It was nice to see that one half was becoming nicely red, whilst the other was untouched… There was a spanking, sometimes the hairbrush, sometimes a cane and sometimes barehanded. It was nice to see the tension in her body, she was standing with her hand to be secure. In the deeper feelings of the spanking she would bring het buttock backwards, bending a little more over. 

“How dus I feel that only one half is spanked?” Her only reply was “Mean” Lady is not that communative during a spanking… “Is it mean for the side whitch is spanked or the other one?” “The other one..” Wack! There was the first blow with the hairbrush on “the other side” During the spanking I clipped some clamps on her nipples and attached a leash to it. She didn’t like the leash between her bottom and then being spanked… Our did she liked it a lot?  That’s always hard to say. I know that sometimes it feels good for her if I’m not only the nice guy… but helping her in fulfilling her masochistic and myself in my sadistic needs… I fulfilled mine, I can tell you! Where there was a moment only one half of her buttock red, after a while this was equealed on both sides. 

Then I helped her stand up straight… Took her in my arms and carried her to bed. Without thinking she turned back to her stomach and took te position on her knees. I tied the leas to the headboard of the bed… and took some other implement… In not feeling well, this was feeling so well! 

(C) Magic

Lady came down the stairs, I heard the clicking of her high heels, A little smile went over my face. I think she is a real beautiful woman, and being dressed up a little more sexy is still very special for me. I know that sometimes she buys strange color of thongs just to surprise me… I liher her surprises and try sometimes to help by buying some lingerie for her… (Is that a present to myself?)  When she was in the room, I told her that she is so levely and sexy for me. Her smile told more then her words. In her feminin beauty she poured in the wine, and we both whent to our computer, to find art or pictures for our blogs, write some words, express our feelings. It’s often a moment of quit and rest for us. Sometimes we show the other the things we found, or tell that it is hard to find something nice… Music softly and some candles lit, relaxing ourselfses. 

Before we had noticed it had become rather late, so we went upstairs… While shutting down the computer Lady looked at me and said: “I hope that you have switched on the heating in the bedroom, otherwise you have a hot Lady in a cold room…” with a smile I only know from her. We went up to the attic. It was nice warm, and we have new dimmers on all the lights, so we toned down the lights.. nice warm also. At once I walked to Lady, Lifted her up in front of me, facing each other, and pushed her to to wall, stil lifting her. I played with her breasts, her tighs and teasingly with her thong. I felt the warmth in her body… and the reaction in me. Maybe not as much foreplay as mostly, but I wanted to feel her… 

After a while I carried her to our bed, and gave her a little spanking and we made love. With a smile I went to the box where we keep the toys, and took a roll of bondage tape, wich had arrived a few days before. We had never used it, but it is very nice to use! I used it to tie her hands to her legs, and did a few rounds over her breast. It seems so soft and tender material, but when you are tied with it, there is not that much room to move.  Lady often moves when we are playing… this time she wasn’t able to move that much! I felt that it helped in just being there. I tapped a little on her most feminin parts, and I saw the reaction…. I saw the waves go trough her body… A wonder to see!  Just a wonderfull night…

Magic

Stop. Just one word, but it has its impact. Yesterday I was later then usual from my work, and beautiful Lady came down the stairs, I heard on the clicking of her heels that she was wearing high heels, and I felt a smile on my face. I lit some candles and poured a drink in the glasses.  

She was dressed nicely in black, with grey high heels, black stockings and a matching scarf… Every time I see her, I know why I felt for her… we kissed a welcome kiss, and after a while we took some time to do things to relax, both where posting spanking pictures and art on our different sites. We drank a glass of wine and after a while we went upstairs… 

Oké, normaly the one who is to be spanked has to show the bare bottom, this time it is my turn. In the moment that she was brushing her teeth, I went behind her to hold her.. to make her feel that I wanted to play. In that moment I felt I small sign that it was not the right moment, but I think we both wanted it so much to work that we started to play. 

Because the children where sleeping we didn’t want to make that much noise, so I started to warm her up with a cane… Often I can see that the pain in her body is going to a nice feeling… some other times the connection doesn’t work… this was such a moment, 

So I let her go to the bed and kneel over there. With the scarf I tied her hands and with a rope I tied it to the headboard of our bed, I teased her with the rope, I used a flogger on her back… and again I took the cane on her buttock. “Stop” Lady said… 

I untied her hands, I lifted her in my arms and carried her in bed… So much wanting this to work… It didn’t…

To be honest, I felt a sadness that we couldn’t find the connection

Magic

This morning we where both at home, and we had the home for ourselves. In becoming awake I felt that the part we call Magic would like to meet Lady. Where she was half asleep I turned her on her stomach at once. Whilst she asked why, I laid my hand on her mouth, to make clear that I would be together with her in a spanking On her stomach I gave her a serious first whack. I felt the double emotions in her, and held my hand in her neck to comfort her. In holding her hand of neck I like to feel the reactions of her, and hope that from that I get the information to do the things she likes at that moment. 

After a few times that I hit her bottom I heard a little groaming… I felt that it was very hard for her, letting go is so hard these days. Still I caressed and spanked her bottom. To be honest, I know that is hard to be there. And not because I’m the guy-who-knows-it-all that I spanked her, but to show her my love, and to let her feel that I would like to feel her that she is special. After a while I changed from barehand to a cane and holding her against me I spanked her for a while, not as a punishment, but because it is a special part of what we share. Her body responded on the actions, and I held my hand over her mouth for a little while… I changed her position that Lady was facing me, and I drew her arms around my neck. That moment I took our ruler and spanked her softly again… her body reacted even more.

After a while she told me that is was enough… It was heavy, maybe not in the spanking, but surely in the emotions…Magic

You all may have noticed that the last time I’m not writing as much and not with the joyfull sound of the beginning. To be honest? I’ve seriously jepardiged the relation between Lady and me. From the beginning I witheld her a real big problem in my life. After our marriage, I broke down and it all came into the light. Lady, as the beauty she is, has not left me, wat was more than reasonable, but told me that our love and the choice she made where not in vain… and she would like to fight for our relationship and marriage. 

In this al we found our more or less our way, and superficialy slowly the things seemed to calm down. However there is especially one thing that never can be regained, and that is the utmost trust Lady had in me… When there seemed to be the first staps back, I fell back and again a problem due to my not coping with things gave an other blow to our relationship. To my joy Lady decided to go on and fight for our relationship… in spite of all that happened…  

Where the trust has disappeared a lot, it is much harder to get the connection in our love live, where there has to be much more trust then in the “normal” part of a relationship. Especially in our spanking and BDSM part, there has to be trust to play… and because of all the pain there has been and is, our way back is very hard, and it is evident that it will never be the way it was…. there has to come a new way in sharing, in our love and the other parts of our life. So my writings will be honest, but not always joyfull…

Magic

Yesterday evening, there was an occasional rest in the house, we had the time and the room to do the things we like. Both where fiddling around at our computers, Lady was busy updating her blog, looking for art. I was looking for some BDSM oriented movies. We took our time, because it didn’t matter. Time was ours.

Lady went upstairs for a shower, when I heared her coming down the stairs I felt a smile on my face. The clicking sound of high heels on the stair told me that she had dressed up nicely. The smile became even bigger when she opened the door, the boots we only had bought that afternoon because they are so nice, Holdups with lace, a very nice black short skirt with a glimps of a sort of pettycoat, end a top to show the beauty of her breasts, very nice with a necklace to make a suggestion of an O-ring. I felt a little quiver in me knees, her beauty did overwhelm me. With a little smile she went to the kitchen to make dinner. Each time she was moving around I kept looking, such a joy to see here moving around… showing the girl in her.
Together we drank a glass of wine, and ate our dinner and had a nice conversation about the day. Afterwards we went back to our computers…

“Magic, if… If you will give me a spanking, I know I get very horny this week in fantasizing about a very slow, but also very hard spanking. Not as quick as possible give me an orgasm, but a real hard spanking! I like several positions, and really feeling it.” So, that was a remark that I think a lot of spanko’s like to hear! You know, our spanking is not in DD, but a need in us, it sexual arouses me, and I know how nice it is for the masochistic needs in Lady. We both enjoy sharing that part, because it gives us something special… Something different then being lovers, something else then being submissive and dominant, something different then being partners, spanking has its own merit and giving us a special feeling.

Both went on after the computer, Lady was searching and publishing art on her blog, and I was looking movies on spankingtube. The sounds of the spanking was softly on the background. I felt the longing becoming more and more! At once, I looked for a longer movie on the computer, turned a quarter so it was facing the length of the table.

I took Lady by her hands and brought her to te table, made her bend a little over it, she looked to the computer and said: “But I know this movie!” She went to the toilet and I found another nice movie. When she was back, I made her bend over the table, her face to the computer and took het skirt over hips, to make her bottom available for what was to come.

Without warning
Without warming her bottom
Without a few taps to know where
There it was, not just a slap
But a real spank on her bottom
My hand hit her more then firm
A moan came from deep within.

Magic

Dear readers,

It’s  been more then a while this time.

There have been some harsh times, some moments of being lost in emotions and lost in myself. The result is that the relation between Lady and me has had a rough time also, and there is a lot of trust lost.In this feeling I was not able to write nice and special stories about the beautiful moments of spankin and being in that part of our relationship.

I’m not able to see in the future,
I can see a little in the past
To learn and change
To avoid getting in the same swing
For the third time

I hope that again
I can write about spankings
the depth in that feeling

Yours, Magic

Long time no writing from my site.

I hope you didn’t mined to much. But sometimes in life things are to busy, complex and there are other very important things to do. This is such a time where there was not so much room and inspiration. But, the good news is, to compensate for not writing I started more to look for nice pictures and made several new blogs to show you the art and nice pictures I found.

Even, sometimes I will write my experiences here…Yesterday, Lady went upstairs for a shower and after a while came down in very nice clothings, a skin tight leather look pant, a nice turquoise corset with matching earrings! Wearing  high heels from classy black and with a nice smile on her face. We both went to a computer to play with our blogs. We drank a glass of wine and listened to the music. This time of rest is very important and helps us to get in balance.Later on we went upstairs to the attic, teasing each other and with longing in our body’s and minds. I lit some candles and Lady was lying on the bed, a smile on her face. I undid her from her trousers, and kept the thong in place. I started to tie her hair, but it slipped several times, in the end I managed to keep the rope in place and tied it to her corset, while she was on her stomach, forcing her head a little up by the rope in her hair.

At that moment I started to spank her a little, her body reacting quickly, I held her hand with one hand, and with the other I spanked her in a quit pace.. I felt the quivering going trough her body, the promise of what to come.We where in the mood for different things, so I started to tie her legs in the ways of a hogtie, but her knees pointing outwards, making her thighs and inner legs very exposed. Of course I could resist this temptation and I went between tying her and giving her some spankings. After her legs I tied her hands to the corners of the bed and went on with some spanking, some caning with different canes and used a nice whip on her shoulders. It was nice to see her, Black High heels, a black lace tong and her corset, tied and being spanked again…

At once I decided to scratch her, and starting from her shoulders I went downs with my hands to her crotch. It was nice that she was tied up! She reacted very heavy and restrained by the ropes, she moved to al sides. I untied her legs, shifted her thong sideways and spanked her most feminine parts.For a long time we played, I spanked her, untied her corset and whipped her back with several whips. As in interlude I spanked her, and made her sit on her knees, in many ways there was the feeling and so many times I saw the beauty of an orgasm racing trough her body…

We played on and made love…
together we fell in a deep sleep…

Magic

Lady wrote a few days ago about being finally connected again, and the amazing spanking we shared. I was a little shy when she said thank you for my patience. How did it went on? I want to share a memory with you all and of course especially with Lady! This memory is not about the amazing spanking Lady wrote about…
 
A few days later, Lady and I had a busy day and where glad that it was evening. In our rest we drank coffee and there was really nothing on tv, so after a while we both went to our computers. A part of the result is visible on Lady´s blog with spanking movies. Of course we where joking a little now and then.. I told her honestly that looking al kind of spanking movies and art made me very hot. A smile went over her face. She bowed towards me and whispered that she was fantasising about being spanked with the cane while wearing her jeans… So I started smiling a lot also and told her that I was glad that this day she was wearing jeans… and perhaps there was a little possibility that.. just in case of!
 
A glass of a very nice wine later Lady went upstairs. Lady was brushing her teeth and I was shutting the doors, blowing out the candles and went upstairs also. With her most Ladylike smile she was lying on bed. I went to our case with toys and took out different canes. I left the lid open, you never know!
With one hand I took her hair and slowly pulled her to stand up, and then made her bow over the bed with her legs beautifully straightened, her buttock nicely tight and her upper body a little forward… She told her fantasy… she got what she asked for!
 
“Ready?” She agreed! Her jeans very tight round her buttock… awaiting. Two little taps to let her know where. Smack! This first hit was harder then I ever gave her before to start with. I heard the sounds, I saw the movement of her body… First her body got more tensed, rounder and tighter, then a little nick in her knees. A moan of joy and a grasp to hold her breath at the same time… We both knew that the spanking had started.
 
It felt so good to see Lady going to her world, in a depth I cannot follow her. To let her know that the next hit would come I gave a few taps before. Tap tap, smack! Over and over, again and again. A slow, steady pace.
The familiar reaction of her body started to come, a slow dance, whilst slowly increasing the tension and arch of her back. With one hand I grab her hair, helping a little… A sigh, a beautiful tremble and convulsions of her body told a lot. Lady had her first orgasm for this night… Very quickly I took another cane, and the caning of her nice buttock in jeans went on. It didn’t stay at one orgasm, I saw them rolling in… ebbing away and the next one already closing in on her body. I used al kinds of canes, our special red one, a thin reed one, a plastic from the blinding and a sturdy bamboo one. Even a little teasing of her back with a whip of soft feathery and harder leather parts. To be honest? I was rather hard to her… and we both went in to the beauty of sharing a spanking.
 
“Are you alright?” a mumbling yes was the answer she gave. I caned and caressed her for another while. I took down her jeans, to let her feel the cane on her bare skin. I know and saw that the impact was much heavier for her. Also it made it possible for me to tough her soft skin. Rubbing a little. At that moment I decided to make her feel even more vulnerable and took down her tong, just below her buttock… Of course, this al made me very hot also! I took a long riding crop, and whipped her buttock again and again. I did not stop when she had a very deep orgasm, but went on I saw the beauty of Lady squirting in the next wave of orgasms..
 
Of course, it was not my meaning to bring her body to the point where it would break down… I took her in my arms and carried her to bed… “Enough Love?” It wasn’t… Al kinds of implements where used, there where moments of lust, moments of love and even moments of laughter. In it al we went deeper and deeper… being and sharing together… Lady’s bottom was spanked, caned, whipped, slapped with a ruler and a leather “hand”… her breast where caned and I held them very firmly… Even her most feminine parts where toughed by my hands, bringing her even deeper.. The ruler on her inner thighs made her sigh and come over and over… Lady squirted several times and I like to see the gush coming out of her… feeling the warmth and sometimes even hearing the force of her body squirting out of her…
 
Even in this part we where so close… so together… to sides of a coin… making it special and so deep for the both of us.. not the one doing this for the other.. But true joy in sharing and being together in the moment…

Together we fell asleep
Lady in my arms..
still being caressed
Still in wonder,
unbelief of how beautiful
our sharing was…

In Love with Lady, Magic